What are SugarDaddies Looking for in a SugarBaby?
The secrets of a great sugar relationship are commonly discovered after years of experience of living the lifestyle of a sugarbaby. It is not enough to have the traits of a sugardaddy magnet in order to have a successful sugardaddy relationship. Some secrets are more subtle in the sense that each sugardaddy will expect different things from a sugarbaby and you must know how to adapt, but when you draw the line, there are a few pointers you can learn to avoid from the very beginning and which are generally true for adult dating.
So, what do sugardaddies expect of a sugarbaby? Is it romance, passion, enthusiasm?
Maybe that too, but actually, sugardaddies are looking for a sophisticated and elegant lady who knows how to woo them with her charms in a delicate and considerate manner. She has to know what she wants and choose him because she feels that they are compatible in all regards. All in all, sugardaddy dating is about finding a sugardaddy who makes you feel adored and who you can adore back, otherwise your mutually beneficial relationship will not be as you might idealize it.
Many sugardaddies might be offended or just taken aback if a sugarbaby insists on clarifying the financial details of their sugar relationship too soon. A sugardaddy wants you to be about more than just the money, so your patience is crucial. It is a possibility that some sugardaddies will avoid the subject altogether, while some will tell you right away how big your allowance will be.
Another important aspect, that some sugarbabies might not be comfortable with, is the intimacy issue. Whether you like it or not, your sugardaddy is expecting a few moments of intimacy with you, just as any man does in any relationship. It might be that you two just shared a fabulous romantic meal at a top notch restaurant and he wants to take you back to his five star hotel room afterwards, or that you spent the day shopping with him and he wants to unwind with you during the evening at his place or your place. In either case, these sugardaddies know exactly what they want from you, the question is: do you also want it?
Furthermore, think about his marital status. If he is a married sugardaddy, then he is looking for someone who respects boundaries and adjusts to his family lifestyle with ease. Sugarbabies should not expect to be called in the middle of the night, just because he wants to know how their day was. When he does call and wants to meet up, he is just looking to escape for a few hours, relax and enjoy himself; so chances are he is also hoping for a sugarbaby who will not give him a hard time about them not seeing each other for a few days or weeks. The same is true for a sugardaddy who is not married. Neither of them is looking for a wife.
In the end, perfect adaptability to each singular case is of utmost importance if you want to make it in the sugardaddy dating world.
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