I am a single mother,self - supporting and own my home.I am legally seperated and have been for several years.Since becoming seperated i have grown spiritually and made huge changes to my life .I reclaimed my self esteem and self worth .Up until now ,having a relationship with a man has been at the bottom of my list - i have been "planting my own garden and decorating my own soul instead of waiting for someone to bring me flowers." Now i long for some male companionship , some passion,[I am a very passionate person]- I am a non-drinker , don't enjoy the bar scene and find older men stimulating.I get propositioned frequently by younger men with no goals in life - they see me as an opportunity. I am not a gold - digger - material things are trivial to me . I believe the best things in life are truly free- a hug, to snuggle by an open fire , to wake up with strong arms around me . These all cost nothing but do wonders for the soul.I enjoy quiet evenings with a dinner / movie - whether dining out or home cooked[i am a great cook by the way] I have many interests and hobbies -enjoying my beautiful children is my #1, music, dancing,inspirational poetry, antiques, refurbishing old furniture ,cooking, interior decorating,reading,sea-doos, snowmobiling,gardening, love the beach!,volunteer work in the community is something i really enjoy. so thats a little bit about me ...
What I'm Looking For
I am seeking a warm , honest, "shoot from the hip" kind of guy -someone who can make me laugh!Someone who likes children.No-one who is going to bring me down or hurt me emotionally or physically [been there done that.]Someone who can appreciate me for who I am and not try to change me .you have to have a huge sense of humour - I do, and making others laugh has always come easily to me. I would be lying if i said looks were not important - there has to be a physical attraction.I find tall ,athletic,rugged ,men appealing.Someone who looks just as good in a tux as he does in a pair of cut offs and old muscle shirt.Lots of hair or bald - both sexy!Someone with similar interests to me , but I am always happy to explore new things.