(My Birthday was 3 months ago) Capricorn
New Lebanon, NY, United States
Seeking SugarBaby 18 - 99
|About Me and what I'm Looking For:
A panoptic self-description:
I am a fun-loving, easy going, emotionally and financially independent Teddy Bear of a man seeking a companion with whom to travel and share the fun, adventure, and mystery of life - along with sharing emotional intimacy.
Are you a good communicator ?
Can you express your deepest inner feelings and desires easily ?
Can you be honest without being hurt ?
Can you be honest without being hurtful ?
Can you manipulate people ?
Do you enjoy a bargain ?
How do you influence people ?
My likes and dislikes are many. Trying for brevity here, we'll save all mutual ``likes & dislikes`` for discovery during our ``getting-to-know-one-another`` phase. If I still remember these things when we get to that stage.
I am always trying to take in information; absorption education. I enjoy computer technology, reading ( newspapers, magazines, books, directions, road maps, recipes, match-book covers, chinese fortunes ), futsing around the house, yard, auto, Kubota, lawnmower. I like to watch films, workout, dine in very fine restaurants as well as ``joints`` and travel. Golf enjoys most of my warm weather time, although I hike, picnic, primitive camp, take leisurely rides to both nowhere and somewhere.
Goals, dreams, direction, planning are all good, but I despise artificial deadlines.
The person I am seeking will have within the total equation: a naturally feminine nature; be an intelligent, polished, sophisticated, attractive lady between 25 and 55. Be from any location world-wide. ( I can re-locate to be near the special person, or that person can re-locate here ). Honesty and sincerity must be there somewhere.
D/D FREE ( MELLOW SMOKE & ALCOHOL ACCEPTABLE. )
Expect the same.
Not wanted by any agencies or organizations, including IRS.
No fatal attractions. No unmanageable baggage.
EXPRESSIVE EYES & BODY LANGUAGE.
FEMININE ACTING in general.
GENTLE TOUCH. MASSAGE A PLUS.
TEETH AND HAIR. Have ? Rent ?
Not looking for someone to hold my reins, nor me to hold theirs; but rather walk along side one another, sharing the yoke.
Gentle Hands - soft hands.
Style, class, and intelligence ( not Mensa ) drive me. I am sweet, devoted, loyal, attentive, giving, open minded, deep, spontaneous, playful, active, nurturing, well balanced, sensitive, intelligent and a bit witty. I could go on-and-on ( how many adjectives are left ? ); would you also believe humble ? Would you believe anything written here ? My experience is not heavily into self-description, but if I don't tell you, who will ? I am interested in psychology. I am optimistic, ardent, affectionate, passionate & monogamous. I DO expect the same if a ``frenchip`` goes beyond casual and becomes a committed relationship. I would give you no reason not to be, promise! I am very sexy in a classy and understated way. At first, I intimidate most people. I am very picky as to with whom I speak. I very much appreciate a well mannered person. Really, I am not arrogant, or an egomaniac, I am just telling you random things about who I am. I am easy to get along with, I hate to argue or complain. Unnecessary drama is a turn-off. I am very reasonable. I am seeking a complimentary relationship which includes total trust and openness, a soul mate. As you can read I know what I want and who I am. I am easy to communicate with, I seem to connect with people. I like to have fun and laugh as much as possible. I have a very pleasant nature. I hate to argue and try not to hold a grudge. When there is an issue to deal with, I prefer to express my feelings, listen to other persons point-of-view, make a mutual decision, learn from the issue/conflict and move on. I am always trying to improve myself. I enjoy a variety of sports; golf is at the top of my list at the moment.
You can hire a blind person ( okay, vision challenged, if I must ) to tune a piano, but would that same person be the perfect housekeeper
( dusting, washing windows ) ?
Isn't it interesting how several diversified people can each believe they have a handle on a particular attribute, each feeling theirs is the truest, purest way. Upon close examination of any given group of people, the spectrum exists where a couple of people do not have the slightest clue, a couple more can't spell it, a few have an idea of what is going on, what it's all about, but no one has the precise ``lock`` on it, no one is perfect.
I would like to meet someone who might become a buddy, a companion, a confidante, a very good friend, my soul-mate, to walk alongside of me for the balance of our days. Are you up to it ?
• am not seeking another marriage
• a casual or dedicated relationship will be enough
• am not going to ``look``, or search for that special
someone; she/he/it/they - will happen
• if and when that person (s) comes along, we will be
able to tell. Accept whatever the future unfolds.
• open mind regarding sex, sexual orientation,
practices, history, wants, desires and needs.
Be able to openly discuss various facets.
• perhaps someone bisexual ( we both could enjoy ).
• The need for control ? Why ?
• fastidious w/o being anal ( ``a fastidious and incisive intellect``;
``fastidious about personal cleanliness)
• soft voice and touch
• teeth and gums - Have ? Rent ? Borrow ?
• public displays of affection, perhaps public nudity
without qualms when appropriate ( without causing
the populace to take ill )
• financial matters
• not going to advertise my desires ( too many times
people try too hard to proffer attributes not
truly genuine to them.
• perhaps discover that special someone
• uncover a jewel
• less checkout time will be req'd determining
genuineness of their persona ( or temperament ).
• rent a body for those times company is required.
• enjoy my solitude most of the year
Shall we discuss: attitude, bent, capacity, cast, character, complexion, constitution, distinctiveness, ego, emotions, humor, idiosyncrasy, inclination, individualism, individuality, inner nature, intellect, kind, make-up, mentality, mettle, mood, nature, outlook, peculiarity, personality, quality, soul, spirit, stamp, structure, susceptibility, temper, tendency, turn, type, way ?
Love life, dying to live not living to die.
Work some play harder.
Love to travel......
Not looking for the best just the best that one has to offer.
Motivated, strong willed, good hearted, honest with herself and her partner. Love the good life and even if she does not have it now, she strives for it!
I am someone who believes that chemistry, or lack of, guides all relationships to their intended destination. We must be able to connect on a physical and mental level to progress beyond a friendship. Do you believe we must allow some time period for this ``chemistry`` to materialize ?
My ideal partner will love long kisses, like holding hands, she'll be sensual, humorous, attractive in my eyes, honest, passionate, kind, romantic, affectionate, intelligent & takes care of herself inside and out. She will enjoy long romantic baths/showers together with candles and bubbles and will also enjoy giving and receiving massages. She will also enjoy great food & wine.
I am looking for someone who is honest, faithful, respectful, trustworthy, good sense of humor and can love unconditionally.
Waiting to hear from you.