|About Me and what I'm Looking For:
Now what can I write to catch your attention? We all know words can be manipulated to make anyone look like they are one in a million. I know my kids think I am one in a million as well as those close to me so read on and see if you think that also. Now I know the first thing everyone wants to know is what do I look like. First, I do have all my hair and for some reason these dimples of mine keep showing up when I smile and have for years. Cute, All-American and adorable have been words used to describe me by others and the way I carry myself always makes those around me feel safe. I am not in the mold of a GQ model or a gym rat that needs a mirror in his pocket, but do have the looks and charm that makes me more than just an average man. I am athletic and can hold my own in any situation, from sports to cultural events I am comfortable. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and since I can't change my looks I am just going to let you be the judge, though ugly I am not. Phew, the almighty looks department is closed. Unless you want that pretty boy or He-Man look then I am worth the effort. If you like the rest of the profile tell me and then we can share pictures. No reason to send a picture if the rest of who I am isn't important to you.
I have always been the life of the party, the one who looks at life with a positive outlook. My sense of humor stands out as much as my deep voice and both have a gentle quality to them. My personality shines through in my smile and is full of passion and charm. I am indeed a leader and not a follower, unless of course its time to follow my better half. I do enjoy a women of power and don't mind her leading, as long as she allows me the lead when its time for a man to be a man. I do have a boyish outlook on life and hope that the woman who steals my heart also enjoys the little things in life. The walk in the rain; the stomping in puddles; the cuddling on the couch; the Sunday morning love session just because we can't let go of each other are all things that make my heart smile and should do the same for yours. I do enjoy going out for a nice dinner or a walk downtown but not every night. Standing next to you in the kitchen while I peel onions and you teasing me about the tears can be as fun as hitting a Jazz Club for dancing and playing with friends. Actually I would prefer someone who enjoys down time and can enjoy one on one private time as much as she enjoys being the center of attention at a black tie event. And yes, the one who steals my heart is always the center of attention to me. I can cook with the best of them and don't mind doing so, so lets hit the store and pick up some things so we can learn about each other as we work together to make dinner for each other. Anyone can charm a woman by spending $500 on dinner but how many men can charm a woman while making dinner with her or for her? Hopefully you can swim because I would laugh a little if I had to put a big ORANGE life vest on you as we cruise around on the boat. Those vests are not very sexy!
Of course we all have our type of person we are attracted to. The first thing I notice is her smile. There is nothing that grabs me more than a beautiful woman smiling. Her zest for life, her positive outlook and her personality all can be seen through her smile. A shy smile, a happy smile, a mischievous smile all come from the inside and shows me she is happy with who she is and what she believes in. Behind that smile should be a sense of humor and a focus on the positive things in life. I love to laugh and I don?t sweat the small stuff and neither should she. Ok, I know most men want a Barbie type woman with the perfect body and won't settle for anyone who has any flaws. Now that way of thinking excludes any mother who has gone through the joys of childbirth. Perfection has flaws and is what makes each one of us unique. Perfection to me is about a person's heart, her character and her passion. We all have something we don't like about our bodies; even those who work on their body's everyday wouldn't be working if they thought it was perfect. Now don't get me wrong, taking care of who you are includes the body as well as the mind. I love a feminine woman who can also go sporty casual. I appreciate nice nails and hair and have no problem waiting the extra 30 minutes so the one I adore can look her best. If you believe your at least cute and sexy in your own way and you know what it means to have character and passion then my attraction towards you will be instant. Forgive me for bringing this up but a strong sexual drive with passion and an adventurous side is appreciated. Its all part of a relationship and is as important as it is for me to treat you with respect and honor. OK maybe a wild side as well would bean extra boost to our relationship. If you have the important things then the rest will just be another reason for me to smile. I would like to find someone who is driven in her career and life. Someone who is feels complete and only needs a man to share those successes and failures with. I do take care of those I love and am hoping the next phase of my life includes a woman who feels the same.
Well that is who I am and what would make me smile. I am not looking for a penpal or IM buddy nor do I want to talk on the phone for a month before we meet. I do have children that I love with all my heart and understand a mother's situation if you have kids. Sometimes its hard to find time for ourselves but if both parties understand then we both will come out on top and maybe find that one person who makes us smile. I have no problem travelling to meet someone and if my schedule doesn't permit then you, being a self-sufficient woman could come to the Midwest and see my world. Please no game players, as my life is too short to be playing games. Let's see if the spark is there and if it is then LOOK out. I am asked why no picture and if you read the profile you know why. If you are interested just ask and I can send one out.