I'm too complex to describe. Really. :P
What I'm Looking For
Renaissance diva (minus the vanity, but with plenty of attitude tempered by humility) seeks-well, you know--and you know who you are. And aren't, too.Generally, you'll find me with my head in the clouds, eyes on the stars, and feet firmly planted on the ground. That is, if I decide to let you find me, at all- in which case you'll discover that, stylistically my persona is kind of like pop-star Pink disguised, existentially & sartorially for workaday purposes as Carrie Bradshaw as channeled by Candace Bushnell. My cats & I seek the (un)usual: A REALLY smart, externally appealing literate,fun,stable/edgy, sane but not boring, guy- plausible AND implausible, for "it all in every sense but also allowing each other to be alone/separate too; and building something together if that works out. All reasonable candidates considered, but if you're a co-dependent drug user musician or else an uptight lawyer but with aspirations to be one of the above or hopelessly straight edge, judgmental, stuffy, and intolerant of achievers who are also free-spirits, it probably it won't work out, so let's not and say we did. Even if you don't meet every by-definition pre-fab criteria or I don't meet your own particular preconceptions, but yet you still somehow have a feeling about me/my ad-go for it, and take the chance. After all, the whole is greater than the sum of its parts.Conversely, if my description of my ideal match, matches you so preternaturally I could be a member of the psychic community; and mine of me couldn't be more like your ideal if I'd had a crib sheet to your soul but something in your gut about my ad just doesn't fit or ring true-then well, don't. Skip it, okay? All the checked off items on a list won't chemistry catalyze if it's not there-So either way, trust your heart, listen to you instincts- filtered through your brain. I'll compromise, but I'll never settle. I have patience, and time, because I want the right thing. Don't you?