It is difficult to find the words to describe yourself when we all see ourselves differently than the rest of the world does. I am, as my name describes, a sexy, smart woman. I am both a sweetheart and a vamp. lol I am brutally honest and sickeningly sweet when necessary. I am strong yet innocent, dominant yet submissive in my heart. I am at a place in life where I know what I have to offer is so much more than most will ever know. I suppose i am here to find someone who is willing to get to know me and like me anyway. Someone who will accept what i can offer. That is, myself. To some, it is not enough, but for the right one, it will be everything he needs.
i am a fun loving, single woman in her mid forties and am all that it implies. Yes I am at my peak, and i certainly do not intend to waste a moment of it. My energy level is high but I am well grounded in my beliefs. I jump into things with both feet, without fear of the unknown. If you feel you can challenge me, or simply introduce me to some of the things I am yet to see and do, then please do not hesitate to write. If you are not afraid to meet someone who will also challenge and intrigue you, then go for it. I have been known to both learn and teach a few things that this lifetime has given to me. Ready?
I would have to say that although it sounds really shallow, sex is of major importance to me in a relationship. if it isnt happening there, then it wont happen in any other part of it either. it is definitely a deal maker, or breaker.
What I'm Looking For
I am looking for someone who can just make things a little easier for me. I have worked hard in my life and would like to take some time to enjoy all that I have learned. I am not looking to be taken care of, as I do that by myself. I am only looking to someone that will do for me, what I cannot do on my own.