So Cal transplant, from Canada. Been here two years. I am an ER nurse, and really can support myself without difficulty. Curious about this site, and looking to see what it has to offer. Tired of men less ambitious or hard working than me..in essence tired of being the sugar mommy. I want to emphasize that I am not here because I am a gold digger. I am not. I do not wish to become someone's property, and will not sell myself for a chance at fortune. I want an equal, not a relationship based on a "little girl and a father figure". I have been called sweet, intelligent, sexy, generous and honest to a fault. I have many facets, and can easily go from discussing physics (in general) over coffee, to having a game of pool in a dive bar, to going to an elegant restaurant dressed in a black cocktail dress, to buying my Levis at Walmart, to taking it all off in a car, on a road trip (at night more than likely), just for the thrill of it. I am a very physical person- with the right man. When I am with someone I care about and feel cared about, I am extremely sexual and sensual. I love good things- quality things, but I do not enjoy spending money just for the sake of spending it. I derive more satisfaction from getting something "designer" at an outlet store, than bragging that I paid full price. Money is earned, in my world, through the blood and tears of others. As a result, I will spend more of mine sending it home to my family, than going on a spree for myself. Having said that, there are times when I'd like to feel pampered. I work hard, and truly enjoy making the most of my time off- be it a road trip to Vegas or trying something new, like scuba diving (still on my to- do list), or decorating the loft that I just moved in to downtown. It is of course flattering if someone likes to buy their woman gifts, or plan surprises, but it is certainly not my expectation.
What I'm Looking For
I am looking for a man of exceptional emotional and intellectual character, one that puts the needs of others ahead of his own- as that is how I am, and would like someone to reciprocate. Looking for "the real thing"- if that is even possible, and I'll know it when I see it. I want to be in a relationship where passion, and love are possible, and consistent. My desire for my man doesn't wane after the initial excitement supposedly wears off. I like to keep those fireworks going all the time. When I love someone, I give them all of myself, and would want to feel that in return. The worst sins in my book are lack of respect for one's partner, and betrayal. Once I am committed to being with someone, I stop playing the field, and expect no less from my man. Money is nice, but it isn't the driving force behind who I am looking for. I want someone I can be compatible with on a physical, and intellectual level. Someone that appreciates the product of hard work, and success, and doesn't think that they are "above" others due to wealth or perceived "status". Arrogance is a definite turn off- confidence, on the other hand is an entirely different matter. I respect those that have made a success out of their life, as I see too many people wasting theirs. It is also more likely that those I meet here will be educated, and of above average intelligence and drive. Those are excellent qualities. I am always looking to improve my own life, and appreciate those that walk the same path. Chemistry is also essential. I posted my pics and I will not respond to those who do not post theirs, or don't provide one on the first conversation. I also am not interested in meeting someone who is way out of my age range. 28-40 seems reasonable, so even though you are a wonderful guy, if you are much older or younger, then please look elsewhere. I am just being honest here. I need to feel attracted to the guy I am with, and fully expect that I won't be attractive to everyone out there either.