5 Basic Fashion Tips for Sugar Daddies

One essential ingredient to impress a sugar baby is your fashion statement. It’s important that your outfit match the occasion. If you’re a sugar daddy entering the dating game or just want to add more style to your wardrobe, here are five fashion tips:

Men's clothes and accessories

1. The classic look. Add several classic looks to your wardrobe. The classic look is timeless and fits several affairs. You can wear it to early dinners, country club engagements, or dinner parties. Also, be sure that your look is well tailored to show that you take pride in your appearance. For example with a sports jacket, basic button down shirt, khaki pants, and Sperry boat shoes you are ready for any occasion.

2. Style. No matter what fashion style you select, be sure to choose brands that match your age. Keep in mind that though you may prefer your comfortable well-worn jeans and concert T-shirt, it may be best to set these aside and choose a fashion statement that fits the venue. For example, if your lady expresses interest in hiking, an appropriate look could be convertible cargo pants, mid-calf length socks, and a moisture wicking shirt. With this fashion expression, you are still comfortable and appropriate for the occasion.

3. Colors. Be sure the colors and patterns of your style complement each other. This process need not be overwhelming, but it will be noticed should you decide to sport a plaid shirt with black and white pin striped pants. You can avoid this fashion no-no by simply combining a solid color with a similar color. Let’s say you are attending a golf outing. You can sport your green and blue plaid shirt, but complement it with a pair of solid blue slacks. The blue slacks will complement the plaid shirt.

4. Socks and shoes. You may view socks and shoes as a quick selection, but did you realize these items can ruin an entire look? While boat shoes are not worn with socks, if your event consists of dinner and dancing, replace your everyday shoes and white socks with black, navy blue, or brown dress shoes with matching dress socks.

5. Physique. Your dates may not expect you to be in top physical condition, but there is an expectation when dating rich men. Therefore, dress according to your physique. If you tend to be more pale, consider tanning or if you should have a belly, be sure to tuck in your shirt. You can make the best with what you have. Because if you feel good you look good :)

With these five tips, you will be ready for most occasions. And when your date sees you strutting handsomely in one of your fashionable looks, she will be happy to be on your arm!

How To Break Up With Your Sugar Daddy

It can be troubling when a relationship you believed to be no-strings-attached becomes too intense. If you feel that your sugar daddy is beginning to ask for more than you can offer him, such as marriage or another comparable commitment, you may need to end the relationship. The same goes for someone who has become too needy, or even jealous of time that you spend with people other than him. What is important is to break off the relationship in a compassionate way and in a way that avoids shutting him out of your life completely. Sugar babies who find themselves in this situation may benefit from a few pointers as to how to break it off and still remain friends, perhaps even still meeting up once in a while and maybe even exchange gifts. These are suggestions that will help you break it off without making the situation any worse than it already is:

Breaking up

#1: Prepare Him For Bad News
Some advice I can offer is to preface your breakup by becoming distant for a few weeks, perhaps even a month. Sugar babies who lavish their sugar daddy with attention one day and break up with him the next are asking for an emotional outburst. After becoming distant, you must choose a time to speak with him in person, and be ready for the conversation to take a while.

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The Ultimate Dating Bucket List for Sugar Babies

If you’re considering becoming a sugar baby or you’ve already experimented a bit, stepping outside your comfort zone can significantly enhance your experience. This bucket list of dating ideas will get you started.

Bucket List

1. Meet your sugar daddy at a couple’s spa.
Spending a weekend at a couple’s retreat will push you and your date closer in a beautifully awkward way. Of course, a spa resort shouldn’t be the location of a first date.

2. Take an extended vacation overseas.
Traveling together pushes the boundaries on any date. While you learn about different cultures, you’ll discover new things about yourself as well.

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The 6 Dos and Don’ts of First Drink Dates

Sugar daddy dating can be fun, but it can also be stressful. Our sugar daddy website receives tons of questions from would-be sugar babies and sugar daddies who are new to the scene and unsure of how to approach their first date.

One of the most popular questions we receive is regarding etiquette on a first date. However, there are different dos and don’ts depending if your first date is over dinner or if you’re just having drinks. A date where you and your potential sugar baby/sugar daddy are just getting drinks can be very different from a dinner date; in some ways it’s harder, in others it’s easier.

Sugar daddy and sugar baby having a drink

To help you calm those fears and make your first drink date a successful one, here are the dos and don’ts of first drink dates with potential sugar babies.

DO: Decide What You’ll Drink Beforehand
It might sound obsessive, but it’s actually a great strategy. Not only does having a “drink plan” ensure that you won’t get too drunk (more on that later), but what you order can actually say a lot about you on a first date. Having a drink plan isn’t obsessive – rather, it’s just being smart and planning ahead wisely.

DON’T: Drink To The Point of Inebriation
When it comes to sugar daddy dating (or any kind of dating for that matter), no good can be had from getting intoxicated early on in the relationship. Not only will your decision-making skills be impaired, but you could potentially turn off your potential sugar.

DO: Eat A Light Dinner Beforehand
Eating something light before you arrive is the best course of action. It not only aids in ensuring that you won’t get too drunk, but it leaves a little room in case you decide to move your drink date to a restaurant. Drinking on an empty stomach is never a good idea, even if you’re monitoring and pacing yourself.

DON’T: Have Plans For The Evening
If you’re having a drink date, it’s a good idea to keep your schedule open. In a best case scenario, you both will enjoy yourselves and want to keep the night going, moving to a different location (and have dinner for example). You should most definitely keep your schedule wide open. Successful users of our sugar daddy website often times talk about dates that were meant to just last a few hours, but instead lasted for the whole night.

DO: Order Some Sparkling Water With Your Drink

Don’t hesitate to keep a glass of water handy to sip from. This will help combat the dehydrating effects of alcohol and help keep you sober. It will also keep you from feeling obligated to keep drinking when you’ve had enough.

DON’T: Leave Drinks Unattended

This is a general safety rule that everyone should follow, especially when meeting someone new or unfamiliar. If you need to leave for an extended period of time, it may be wise to order a new drink just to be on the safe side.

Sugar dating can be tricky, especially if you’re just meeting for drinks. But if you abide by these dos and don’ts, you can have a successful first drinks date. Have fun!

Do Platonic Sugar Daddy Arrangements Exist? [Video]

Contrary to popular belief, sugar daddy relationships aren’t only about sex. Sugar daddy arrangements are based on reciprocal respect, companionship, honesty and many other values that are sometimes hard to find in a traditional relationship. If you’re a young, beautiful and intelligent woman thinking of becoming a sugar baby, but aren’t sure about the whole intimacy part, you might want to try to become a splenda baby. Here are some tips from Katie to help you find a sugar daddy, even if intimacy is off the table:

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You might have noticed that nowadays, everyone assumes that sex is part of the deal in a sugar daddy/sugar baby match. And that a sugar baby who thinks she can have a platonic relationship with her sugar daddy is living in fantasy land, right? But sex is never all it is; and sometimes, it’s not even part of the arrangement at all. Of course, the majority of sugar daddy arrangements do involve intimacy, but as no relationships are created equal there are some that don’t. Platonic arrangements are rare, but they are possible and there are sugar daddies that agree to such arrangements.

For example, recently we received a testimonial from one of our sugar daddies from Minneapolis who has admitted to us that he had both intimate and non-intimate relationships. This is what he stated:

I’ve been on this site off and on for many years. It’s the best of the sugar daddy sites. I’ve had several excellent relationships lasting from a few months to over 4 years. I’ve had relationships with women as young as 18 and as old as 50. I’ve had intimate and non intimate relationships. All of my past SB’s would still consider me a friend and I still meet a couple of them for coffee occasionally.

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Sugar Daddy from Minneapolis

Now, if you’re thinking that this type of relationship only exists with 70-year old sugar daddies, you are wrong. For example, after looking for like 5 minutes among SugarDaddyForMe profiles we found a 36 year old sugar daddy among our members who is not looking for intimacy in a relationship with a sugar baby. This is what he wrote in his profile:

“Did I mention I’m not looking for sex??! I’m just a regular, nice guy who is looking to have some fun spoiling a girl for real, starting right now. I make a good living and wish to help a special girl out. I *am* looking for extremely hot times, incredible amounts of sensuality. But… I don’t expect any sex. Any other activity aside from sexual intercourse that you’re comfortable with is fine with me, but no sex. I prefer to let that kind of thing happen naturally, so as not to spoil it by involving money.
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Sugar Daddy from New York

Now, if you want a platonic arrangement, you must be totally clear about your boundaries. If a sugar daddy lets you know he expects sex as part of the deal, you are wasting time by stringing him along and thinking you’ll change his mind. Don’t bother. Move on, so you can both get what you want.

And be prepared to step it up, to bring your A-game. No sugar daddy is going to shower you with gifts and take you on exotic trips just because you’re pretty. If a sugar baby is not offering sex, she better be offering everything else.

And if you’re wondering how to find a platonic sugar daddy, there’s a very interesting post on the subject on Tumblr on Chi Town Sugar Baby’s blog. I’ll post the link below for you to review, but to sum up her advice is to find a sugar daddy who is “slightly awkward, not completely gorgeous, not totally ugly, rich enough to afford me, not rich enough to be super cocky”, as these types have potential to be your platonic sugar daddy.

To wrap things up, although platonic sugar daddy arrangements are a rare thing to come by, they do exist. So if you are a sugar baby, looking for a platonic arrangement, don’t give up. Just keep looking for that right sugar daddy to give you the platonic arrangement you want. And remember: a platonic sugar daddy wants you to feel like a princess, so he can feel like king.

Okay, well that would be all for today. For more interesting tips and tricks regarding sugar daddy dating make sure to check out the other videos from our channel. Bye!