First dates can be a bit overwhelming, as you are not yet comfortable with the person you are seeing. You may not know what to expect, and this in itself is a bit unsettling. In order to meet someone you enjoy being with, however, first dates are a must. Here are some of the top awkward dating situations between sugar daddies and sugar babies and what you should do if you find yourself in a similar situation.
1. Your date becomes very drunk on the first date and starts becoming loud where you are concerned someone may overhear your conversation. Do you:
a) grin and bear it and try to have fun anyway
b) try to leave before something more embarrassing happens
Answer: b) Your date may be nervous and scared about the whole prospect in dating a younger woman (especially one as beautiful as you), making him reach for the alcohol to try and hide his nervousness. If the alcohol gets a hold of him, however, he may spill more information that can be heard by others than he wants. In order to save him (and yourself) from embarrassment, gently suggest you go outside for some air.
2. Your potential sugar daddy wants to discuss monetary arrangements right from the start. Do you:
a) agree to discuss what type of allowance you expect
b) push it off to another time
c) a little of both
Answer: c) You can discuss it vaguely, but do not come up with a specific price arrangement. You want to get to know the guy and make sure you enjoy his company before talking about allowances at all. This is the fair thing to do for both of you.
3. Your date wants to know why you are interested in older men over younger men. Do you:
a) tell him you are doing it just for the allowance
b) tell him you enjoy sophistication and that younger guys aren’t mature enough to give you what you need from a relationship
Answer: b) First of all, if you are just doing it for the financial support, your sugar daddy arrangements will most probably not last. You should enjoy being with an older man if you want a sugar daddy arrangement to work for you. Be true to yourself as well as your potential sugar daddy and no one will get hurt.
4. You are not at all attracted to your date. Do you:
a) sneak away when he is not looking because you do not wish to continue the date at all
b) politely make up an excuse to leave
c) wait out the date in its entirety
Answer: c) If someone takes you out, you should stay until the very end since he took the time to buy you dinner or take you somewhere for the night. If you are not attracted to him, just do not make a second date. It is polite, however, to try getting through the entire date. You may find with a little more time, that you have a lot in common and that looks are not as important in the end.
5. Your date gets a little bit too aggressive for your liking. Do you:
a) let him know you want him to slow down a little
b) allow him to continue, it must make him feel like he is in control
Answer: a) Tell him you want to get to know him a little more first and that you enjoy the mystery of what is to come, so you would like to savor it longer by going slower.
6. You find out your date knows your parents. Do you:
a) Let him know you would like to keep your relationship a secret
b) Tell him your parents will understand
Answer: a) For now, keep it your little secret. Some people wouldn’t understand your enjoyment when dating rich men and you really don’t need your parents getting involved so early on. If things work out between you, however, you can then let your parents know.
What kind of awkward situations have you experienced while sugar daddy dating?