What to Choose: Sugar or Hard Work?

Many young women are looking for alternative ways to make money. Most of them are smart, pretty, and hard-working, but for one reason or another, find themselves in a bind and needing easy money. A young woman named Angela wrote to me for advice as to whether or not she should consider being a sugar baby, even though she has a boyfriend of over two years and loves him very much:

“Hey, so I was looking up some info online about being a sugar baby because I straight up got asked by a guy if I wanted a sugar daddy… I am a waitress struggling through college and debt, so an opportunity like this sounds great…. expect the fact that I have a boyfriend of 2 and a half years that I love. He doesn’t know, and would be heart-broken if he found out. I’m not a prostitute or anything like that, I have respect for myself and my boyfriend, but this guy is super tempting. He is significantly older than I am, and comes into the diner I work at very regularly and always tips well. I feel conflicted keeping this from my boyfriend, but we both are up to our eyes in debt and really need it. We have plans to move in a few months, which is also going to be expensive. I’m nervous and can’t decide if it’s worth it or not. Any advice??”

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Online Dating Survey Results You Won’t Believe!

A full 56 percent of Americans say that online dating is a good way to meet people. As the internet becomes more and more relevant in our day-to-day lives, online dating, including sugar daddy dating, no longer carries the stigma it once did.

What else can we learn from the far-reaching studies and surveys researchers have recently conducted of online daters? Here are five surprising facts we’ve pulled together from five different studies that asked for the opinions of people just like you.

Online Dating Survey Answers: Yes, Maybe, No

Most Online Daters Only Date One Person at a Time

Contrary to the popular belief that online dating leads to “serial daters” who make connections with a ton of people simultaneously, the Huffington Post reports that the majority of online daters actually only date one person at a time.

While 63 percent of women and 53 percent of men tend to be in contact with more than one person at a time via the internet, the vast majority only actually go on dates with one person at a time. These results also tend to extend to sugar daddy and sugar baby dating, where partners usually choose to keep things simple by dating one person at a time despite the slightly non-traditional nature of their relationships (although there are cases where sugar babies and sugar daddies date several sugars at once). Especially in the world of sugar daddy dating, it’s important to be honest with your partner about whether you are looking for a one-on-one romance or plan to date several people at once. In sugar daddy dating it is acceptable to have an NSA (no strings attached) relationship in which you don’t discuss your other dating life or relationships and that is treated as off limits to ask about, if those are the ground rules you both agree to. Some sugar babies can juggle two or three sugar daddies at a time and of course that greatly increases their potential monthly income, if they can manage that many relationships at a time.

Women Use Poorer Grammar Than Men in Online Dating

At least in New York City, according to DNAinfo, when filling out their online dating profiles and communicating with other users, women use poorer grammar than men. The survey decides poor grammar includes mistakes in spelling and punctuation, as well as the extensive use of text-message-style shorthand: “lol”, “smh”, “rofl”, etc.

Women were also more likely to use a lot of emojis than men when communicating. Researchers suggest that women in New York aren’t actually less intelligent or worse at grammar usage. Conversely, the lack of proper grammar seems to be part of a concerted effort to project an aloof, casual demeanor that puts pressure onto men to make the initial connection. One of the main rules of online dating messaging is to write correctly. So sugar babies seeking to meet a distinguished and successful sugar daddy should remember that using poor grammar will make them appear less intelligent and therefore less desirable.

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How to Impress a Sugar Daddy on a Budget

Looks is just one aspect you should consider if you want to become a sought-after sugar baby. Sugar babies must maintain their appearance and be worthy of their place in a wealthy man’s life. However, this can be difficult in the early phases, when you don’t have an arrangement in which your needs are cared for. Luckily, there are ways that you can achieve an alluring and polished sugar baby look on a tight budget. Follow these tips:

Take Care of Your Teeth

Your teeth are one of the most important parts of your appearance. However, you don’t need professionally whitened veneers to have a beautiful smile. Simply eating a healthy diet, taking vitamins, brushing three times a day and regularly using floss will keep your teeth healthy. Avoid home whitening kits that destroy your tooth enamel and brush weekly with baking soda instead for a healthier and more natural whitening effect.

Sugar baby with homemade face mask and cucumbers

Pamper Your Skin with Homemade Products

You need glowing, perfect skin to be a sugar baby. You don’t need $200 creams and weekly dates at the spa to get this result. There are many homemade scrubs and skin treatments that are cheap and will keep your skin in perfect condition.

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Sugar Daddies: How to Solve the Top 6 Awkward Situations on the First Date?

Even sugar daddy dating isn’t immune to all of those classic awkward first date moments, whether you’re a shy sugar daddy, a very confident one or a chivalrous one. Sometimes awkward situations are bound to happen on a first date. In fact, the sugar daddy and sugar baby dynamic can make certain moments even more awkward than traditional dating.  However, all of these moments can be diffused if you have the right mentality going in. Here are our tips on how to solve the top awkward situations on that nerve-wracking first date with a gorgeous sugar baby.

Ashamed sugar daddy with paper bag on his head

1. She wants to discuss her allowance on the first date. You…
A) Have the discussion
B) Tell her that you’d like to get to know her more before having that talk

Correct answer: B
Every sugar daddy needs and wants to have the allowance conversation at some point; however, the first date is not the time or place to discuss that. Remember that this can also be a bad sign, as sugar babies who jump straight into the money discussion may not make for great companions, but if she’s just starting out in the sugar daddy dating world, you might want to let this slide and give your relationship a chance.

2. She opens up about religious or political opinions that differ strongly from your own. You…
A) Continue the conversation
B) Immediately change the conversation topic

Correct answer: A
Sugar daddy dating will bring you into contact with many women, and they won’t all agree with you. Stop arguing, but keep discussing. Ask why she feels the way she does about the topic. In the end, you are looking for a sugar baby that you’re going to be compatible with. Differing opinions can be a deal-breaker, but not always. By listening to her reasoning as to why she holds a certain opinion, you might be able to understand where she is coming from and accept why she holds certain beliefs.

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Top Communication Skills That You Should Apply in Online Dating

When you use a sugar daddy site to make a connection, you may initially communicate with a potential match through email or online chats. While online communication is a stress-free and convenient way to get to know the other person a little more before meeting them in person and to set up your first date. The fact is that apart from these tips on the actual text of your online messaging, there are a few skills that any sugar daddy or sugar baby should apply when communicating online. These skills can help you to be more successful with online dating:

Online communication

 Pay Attention to the Length of Your Messages
When messages to a potential match are too short, such as with one or two word answers, you may appear uninterested. Plus, it is difficult to communicate with someone who has short responses all the time. On the other hand, excessively long messages are overbearing, and some people may simply not even read messages that scroll off the screen.  So, try to find the right balance in this case.

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